Are Pediatric Emergency Rooms Ready For Your Emergency?

If you are a parent, grandparent, mom, step-mom, or sibling, you know what a Pediatric Emergency room is. You may have even been in one recently. I am going to share a true story about what happened when these parents took their prematurely born daughter to the pediatrician and hospital emergency room. The following story was written by the parents.

Our daughter Rebecca was born four weeks early on July 13, 2006. We loved her from the moment of birth and savored every hour with her. She was released from the NICU five days later, supposedly as a healthy baby girl. The next day, Rebecca was severely congested with thick mucus, continuing her slow feedings, and had difficulty breathing. We took her to the pediatrician and the hospital emergency room during each of the following days we had her. Doctors diagnosed her symptoms as a common cold, and she was repeatedly sent home. Unfortunately, Rebecca passed away on the morning of July 21. We later found out that she had contracted an enteroviral infection that can be lifethreatening in babies. Had her symptoms been treated, she may still be here today. As a result of this tragedy with Rebecca, we created the R Baby Foundation. This charity is dedicated to helping newborn babies, primarily those less than a month old suffering from viral infections and other infectious diseases, receive the highest quality of care and service through supporting education, research, training and life-saving equipment.

This story was taken from The R Baby Foundation website. The parents that wrote this story are Phyllis & Andrew Rabinowitz. You can read more about their story here. Their goal is to save as my babies’ lives as possible.

In order to reach as many people as possible, the R Baby Foundation enlisted a very influential list of parent bloggers. I was beyond thrilled and honored to be invited to participate in this initiative. I am happy to support this organization and will attend the 5 Star Gala honoring the amazing Julia Beck in NYC next week.

With a passion and gift of exceptional reach, we all participated in an #rbabyfoundation twitter party. In one hour, we reached almost 10 million impressions and was a topic trending in NYC! The reach was tremendous and the conversations inspirational, emotional, and most importantly, hopeful.

You can help R Baby Foundation accomplish their goal of improving Pediatric Emergency centers around the world. I have included some links below.

Please sign our petition to improve pediatric emergency care http://www.change.org/petitions/improve-pediatric-emergency-care

View and share the R Baby Foundation PSA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9f5SBVaLGnk&feature=player_embedded

Share the R Baby ad

Follow R Baby on Twitter

Follow R Baby Facebook

Grab the R Baby Foundation blogger badge
 http://www.rbabyfoundation.org/ 

Read and share tips from R Baby Foundation

Join us for the R Baby Foundation 5 star gala: http://www.rbabyfoundation.org/fivestargala.php

Donate
http://www.rbabyfoundation.org/about-donate.php

Shop with Glassybaby and donate
http://www.glassybaby.com/shop/product_detail/precious.aspx

Volunteer
http://www.rbabyfoundation.org/about-volunteers.php

Share you emergency department story with other parents.

Thank you for making a difference! Follow the conversation about R Baby Foundation and use #rbabyfoundation.

Food Has a Way of Connecting Us All

I wanted to share this video. The story behind it is that a very talented food writer and blogger, Jennifer Perillo of http://www.injennieskitchen.com, suffered a major loss last Sunday at 5:52pm. This woman, a wife, mother, and friend, lost her husband. He was the love of her life. 

I first found out about this on twitter and I reached out to @Hip2Housewife to see what happened. She told me. I had never met Mikey. I have met Jennifer and she is very special. Talented, beautiful, and modest. The online community continues to reach out and show her and her 2 small daughters love and support. This experience has left me with so many feelings about life. Jennifer learned the reality of loss. As an online community, we have learned the value of sharing and showing support in times of distress.

If you have a few minutes, watch this beautiful video created by @whiteonricecouple. It is so beautiful. Make a #pieformikey and share it with somebody you love!

http://vimeo.com/27654447

Catching Up With Primetime Parenting

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I have not posted here since Shavuot and I can’t believe that we are already in summer mode.  Please join my facebook fan page for more about what I have been up to lately.  For those of you short on time, here is a short listof  what I’ve been up to lately: Continue reading

Shavuot And The Torah

I love Shavuot. Not only are my most favorite foods eaten in abundance, but the very center of Judaism is recognized. The Torah. I wrote a blog post about this holiday last year (I must have had more free time). This year, I wanted to honor all of the people that have rescued Torahs from dangerous places for thousands of years.

The image I have included and link to about.com is about such a rescue as recent as Katrina. The caption from the picture read, “Removing Torah scrolls from New Orleans’ flooded Beth Israel Synagogue following Hurricane Katrina” , written by Alan Smason. I was so touched by that image that I requested well-known water colorist, Jordan Krimstein, use it as his Jewish New Year card that year. He did and the response was incredible. Here is the original letter that was sent out with the beautiful water color painting of the card: 

August 2006

We all remember the intense destruction of last year’s Hurricane Katrina. One photograph Jenny saw was incredibly emotionally moving. Alan Smason, freelance writer for The Cleveland Jewish News explains:

Members of ZAKA carry the precious Torah scrolls from the main Congregation Beth Israel sanctuary on September 14, 2005. The synagogue suffered catastrophic damage following the landfall of Hurricane Katrina on August 29. Waters rose so quickly from a nearby burst levee that no one was able to launch a rescue effort before the oldest Jewish Orthodox synagogue in New Orleans was destroyed. The stained glass windows entitled the Creation Windows are visible in the background as sunlight streams into the flooded Beth Israel sanctuary. Rabbi Issac Leider of ZAKA carries one of the holy Torah scrolls to a waiting boat outside.

Beth Israel was devastated by the intense hurricane and resultant flooding. The main sanctuary was flooded with water polluted by raw sewage, random debris, and chemicals. The holy Torah scrolls were painstakingly rescued. Following Katrina, six American volunteers with ZAKA arrived in New Orleans, offering aid and assistance to Jewish victims of the hurricane. Who is ZAKA? ZAKA is a New York-based Jewish rescue and recovery organization known in Israel for providing emergency aid at the scene of bombings. But the efforts were too late. Seven Torah scrolls were soaked, handwritten letters were illegible, parchment was disintegrated.

What else did Beth Israel lose? Everything inside including the chairs, tables, pews, bimahs, kitchen equipment, library, office files, all records, memorabilia, etc. was lost. Shul President Jackie Gothard stated that, “Our biggest challenge is the in-gathering of our members, many of whom evacuated to other communities and are not returning to New Orleans, and others who are challenged with the rebuilding of their homes and lives; especially our members who lived in the same neighborhood as the shul, and had the same 8-10 feet of water in their homes. Many of the congregants of Beth Israel are generational members, whose parents and grandparents built this congregation for them.” It is heartwarming to hear about the Jewish community pulling itself together on not only a local level, but a global one as well.

So what ended up happening to the Torah scrolls? On a sad note, all seven of their Sefrei Torah scrolls were so badly destroyed that they had to be buried. Over 3,000 prayer books met the same fate. Who was left to bury the Torah scrolls? Bruce Nolan, Staff Reporter for the Times-Picayne explains that an unaffiliated Christian named Rebecca Heggelund carefully buried the ruined Torah scrolls in her back yard. “Her respect for our faith and our tradition was just a beautiful tribute,” said congregation President Jackie Gothard. Rebecca Heggelund worked as a secretary at Beth Israel for eight years during the 1990s. Heggelund said that she came to understand Jewish rituals and values, including Jewish reverence for the Torah. The Torah is the center of Jewish life and law. In the Orthodox tradition it is the exact record of God’s own words. As a result, the handwritten scrolls containing the first five books of the Bible are any community’s most precious possessions. And tradition prescribes that at the end of their usefulness, they must be ritually buried in a cemetery among deceased Jews. That was not possible shortly after Katrina struck the city. Gothard said. “We evacuated with no idea what the extent of this would be,” she said. “We were like everybody else. We figured we’d be gone two or three days, we’d come back, clean up, that would be it.” Since the devastation to the area was so severe, the Torah scrolls were buried in Heggelund’s backyard until they were able to be moved for proper internment. This burial ceremony took place this past March 19, 2006. The seven Torah scrolls were buried next to the long-serving gabbai of Beth Israel, Meyer Lachoff, who died prior to the hurricane and wasn’t able to be buried until a few weeks later, due to the devastation. The Burial ceremony was attended by over 200 members/friends of Beth Israel and the Jewish Community.

The following press release written and distributed by the Orthodox Union, March 21, 2006, Rabbi Waxman, OU Director of Synagogue Services provided words of inspiration at the burial service for the Torah scrolls, declaring, “There are several times, burial being one of them, in which a Jew is compared to a Sefer Torah (Torah scroll) and a Sefer Torah is compared to a Jew. As we bury these Sifrei Torah it is crucial that we do not bury the principles of Torah with them. It is important that the vibrancy of Torah and of the New Orleans Jewish community remain strong.”

When we are burying Sifrei Torah, in no way does it mean that we should forget the contents,” Rabbi Waxman said. “It would be tragic if, in fact, we forgot our Torah. But it is good that we are able to dispose properly and honorably of these receptacles of the Torah. Unfortunately, Beth Israel has been destroyed. The Sifrei Torah were ruined and must be buried. But by this action we have the opportunity to go on. We have the opportunity and the necessity to continue in the Torah lifestyle; to plant these physical seeds of Torah and to tend to them by reestablishing places of Torah-true prayer; and to dedicate time each day to learn Torah and to perform Torah precepts.”

Jackie Gothard shares exciting news. Rabbi Elazar Muskin along with several Los Angeles Young Israel congregations have a Sefer Torah ready to donate to Beth Israel. The dedication ceremony is August 27, 2006, just two days short of Hurricane Katrina.

 As we approach Rosh Hashanah, may we always keep the Torah at the center of our hearts. The Torah’s precious words have inspired Jewish communities for thousands of years. Whether we give tzedaka (charity), donate to a Jewish organization, or call distant relatives to wish them a happy new year, we are a light onto the nations. Do an extra mitzvah. The whole world will glow more brightly.

As we celebrate Shavuot today, remember all of the beautiful Torahs that you have seen around the world. They arrived there with care an honor, just as the Torah instructs us to be to the people around us.

Garret Reisman, A Nice Jewish Boy From America New Jersey Is Off To Space

What does a nice Jewish boy from America take with him into space? TODAY, Friday, May 14, 2010, Jewish astronaut Garrett Reisman will take the original 2006 presidential proclamation declaring May Jewish American Heritage Month to the International Space Station aboard the shuttle Atlantis. When the shuttle returns, Reisman will turn the document over to the National Museum of American Jewish History, where it will be proudly displayed. 

About Garret Reisman
(source NASA )  Born February 10, 1968 in Morristown, New Jersey, but considers Parsippany, New Jersey, to be his hometown.  Recreational interests include flying, skiing and snowboarding, rock climbing, mountaineering, canyoneering, and SCUBA diving.  Dr. Reisman is an FAA Certified Flight Instructor.  His parents are Sheila Reisman (she must be kvelling from such nachus) of Boynton Beach, Florida and the late Robert Reisman.  His sister, Lainie Reisman, is an international youth violence prevention specialist and currently resides in Washington D.C.

EDUCATION:   Parsippany High School, Parsippany, New Jersey, 1986.
B.S., Economics, University of Pennsylvania, 1991.
B.S., Mechanical Engineering and Applied Mechanics, University of Pennsylvania, 1991.
M.S., Mechanical Engineering, California Institute of Technology, 1992.
Ph.D., Mechanical Engineering, California Institute of Technology, 1997.

Background: Jewish American Heritage Month has been in existence since Pres. George W. Bush first signed the declaration declaring May as such. This year, 2010, is the first time the event is expected to garner national interest with the celebration expected to be the most comprehensive and widely celebrated to date. Some of the recent events responsible for this include:

  • The appointment of the first-ever National Coordinator, Abby Schultz
  • Federal funding to support the program
  • National broadcast programming on the BIO Channel/A & E Networks during the month of May profiling significant Jewish personalities; outreach to over 250,000 teachers through BIO Channel outreach
  • A dedicated website that acts as a clearinghouse for all Jewish American Heritage Month events taking place across the U.S., including educational materials for classroom teachers

Over 100 events planned on behalf of Jewish American Heritage Month throughout the country. Check out JAHM to find out where an event is happening near you. 

The stories of Jewish Americans featured here were selected for their contributions to and impact on the American public. They reflect a broad and eclectic group of achievements in fields ranging from science and medicine to manufacturing and entertainment, and everything in between. New stories will rotate in on a regular basis. Do you have a story about a Jewish American contribution to tell? Click here to submit your story for consideration. (JAHM reserves the right to edit or refuse any submission.)

My Mother’s Day With R Baby Foundation In Central Park, New York

30,000 babies born in the U.S. last year will not make it to this Mother’s Day.

When I first learned about this fact, my eyes swelled up and my heart ached for the mothers’ that had endured such unfortunate circumstances. It is these types of life experiences that bring life to non-profit organizations like R Baby Foundation.

This type of life altering experience was real to Phyllis Rabinowitz. When you meet Phyllis, a gorgeous slender brunette with a resume only the finest companies would consider, you would never imagine that she had lost her own baby at just nine days old. I had the privilege of meeting Phyllis and listened as she gave over her own personal story of loss as if it had just happened. Her and her husband took their unfortunate situation and gave life to a cause that should have been identified years ago. A short but very impressionalbe video about her situation is now available, you will need tissues, trust me. 

Whether your baby is whisked away to the NICU (Neonatol Intensive Care Unit) or you bring your newborn/infant in for fear of an illness or virus, all mothers and their babies depend upon the nearest medical institutions.

 After 13 hours of being hooked up to IV’s, and heart rate monitors, I finally managed to push out my son into the arms of the nurses and staff waiting patiently on the other side. I hadn’t even caught a glimpse of my newborn baby boy when they took him away for some necessary intervention. My husband and I had no idea what was wrong. We waited in silence for somebody to tell us exactly what happened. We feared the worst and prayed for the good. After two hours of waiting for some word on our newborn son, my husband  walked over to the NICU, the scariest steps he had ever taken, in search of news about our newborn son. Thank G-d, he was able to see him beneath the breathing tubes and IVs coming out from his newborn frame. Thank G-d the NICU had the resources and medical technology to help his labored breathing get up to speed with the demands of life outside of the womb.

Even in the constant care of the nurses and rounds of Pediatric specialists, our hearts were heavy with concern and our physical stamina was shot. We visited the NICU every chance we had and took notice of the other newborns in the same room. We thought about them and prayed that they would soon be in the arms of their mothers and fathers.

 Thank G- d, we were able to take our son home with us when I was dispatched from the my two day stay at the hospital. We are forever thankful for the NICU at North Shore University Hospital and the incredible nurses, interns, and physicians that helped us during that time. As I write this post, I know of mothat least one mother that wil spend her Mother’s Day with her premature baby in  the NICU.   I can’t emphasize enough how much it means to me that R Baby Foundation is dedicated to ensuring that babies, including those in the first month of life suffering from viral infections and other infectious diseases, receive the highest quality of care and service through supporting life-saving pediatric training, education, research, treatment and equipment.

I will be walking with R Baby Fondation this Mother’s Day, Sunday, May 9, 2010 (8AM to 11:30AM) in NYC’s Central Park. Even thought registration is now closed, you can still participate as a “Virtual Walker”, make a donation or search for someone who has already registered.

Last year, over 9,000 people participated and helped raise over $750,000 for pediatric emergency care. Help R Baby Foundation increase these numbers for 2010! Click here to view the 2009 website.

Start your Mother’s Day by taking a step towards improving emergency medical care for babies everywhere.

Join R Baby Foundation in the park for:

  • Family Activities
  • Live Entertainment
  • Sports Clinics
  • Arts and Crafts by apple seeds
  • Snacks
  • Giveaways, prizes and much more!

A Shmooz With Jill Zarin, Lisa Wexler, and Gloria Kamen, “Secrets of a Jewish Mother”

 

A Shmooz With Jill Zarin, Lisa Wexler, and Gloria Kamen, “Secrets of a Jewish Mother”.

 

When I heard the title of this book I thought about two things. My own Jewish mother,my sister, and matzo ball soup. That is why I am so excited to interview Jill and Lisa (sisters) and Gloria (their Jewish mother) on Blog Talk Radio. Their book, “Secrets of a Jewish Mother” is flying off the shelves, as moms of all backgrounds can relate to the wisdom of a Jewish mother. What is a Jewish mother, or family get together, without a bowl of fluffy matzo ball soup? Join me and Beth Rosen as we find out what Jill, Lisa, and Gloria serve-up for their regular family get togethers, especially during the High Holidays in the fall and at Passover in the springtime. Book Description: The Jewish Mother knows what she wants. And what you should want too. In Secrets of a Jewish Mother, you’ll learn how to make her methods your very own, and as result you’ll give and get of love and happiness in great amounts. In what could be thought of as the Jewish Mother’s Guide to Life, Jill Zarin, the breakout star of Bravo’s hit series, The Real Housewives of New York, teams up with her sister, Lisa Wexler, award-winning host of daily radio program The Lisa Wexler Show, and her mother, the estimable Gloria Kamen who made a splash on Jill’s series last year. Secrets of a Jewish Mother shows readers that being clear about what you want is the best policy, and standing up for yourself and your family is always the right way to go. Using real life examples, stories from Jill, Lisa and Gloria, this mother/daughter trio reveals their secrets to life, love, and happiness.
And, remember, a lot of love and a little matzoh ball soup never hurt anyone. Happy Early Mother’s Day!

May is Jewish American Heritage Month

When I was at Kosherfest this past year, I met some very interesting people with a passion for what they do. Somebody that I fell in love with immediately was Abby Schwartz. Not only was I impressed with her savvy style, but her passion and love for  www.jewishamericanheritagemonth.us
an online community with press releases, biographies of noted Jewish Americans, and much more!

 I had the opportunity to interview Abby during Kosherfest and you can listen to our shmooz and all the wonderful events and partnerships aligned with this terrific program. If you are wondering why Abby was at Kosherfest, The Manischewitz Company is one of the sponsors of Jewish American Heritage Month.

About JAHM – log onto  www.jahm.us  which serves as an interactive clearinghouse for programs and activities across the country.  Visitors to the site have the opportunity to enter events in their own communities, learn about national programming, download educational materials, and garner ideas for local celebrations.

I had my own personal experience that I shared with Abby, which I posted about on sheitelsandstrollers.wordpress.com. It all happened on a family outing to the Queens Zoo last October. I never knew that one ride on the carousel could unveil so much Jewish American Heritage. There are so many stories and if you have one, be proud and share it on JAHM.us